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These are just a few basic pointers that could support you in your relationship. I’m no expert, but it doesn’t take Aphrodite to have some common sense 😉

  1. Don’t fall asleep angry, ever. If you do happen to fall asleep after an argument, if you wake up in the middle of the night, hold him/her close. A silent apology.
  2. It’s OK to laugh during sex! If you bang heads, laugh! Have fun with it. If there’s no laughter between you both, then you’re with the wrong person.
  3. Dance naked together. Be naked together. If you don’t feel comfortable showing your partner your lumps and bumps, then you’re with the wrong guy/gal.
  4. Being romantic isn’t for everyone – believe me! But a post-it note in your partner’s coat, or a note on the pillow after you’ve left for work telling them you love them/miss them will never go amiss.
  5. Don’t cling to them when you’re out. Dance with your friends, mingle with people – but send them the odd cheeky wink from across the room.
  6. Keep everything 50/50 or you will both fall out of balance with each other.
  7. Never compare your relationship to others. You are you, don’t try to be someone else.
  8. Be kind. Give them space when they need it, but be their home when they come back.
  9. Be proud to love them.
  10. Support them through everything they do/want to do in life – even the stupid decisions or far away dreams. People need to make their own mistakes, but be there for them if it does all fall – and never say ‘I told you so’.

But most of all, love the with all your heart, or don’t love them at all.